Jon and Kate Gosselin's sextuplets just turned 14 and you would think that maybe their parents have found a way to get along, but that isn't the case. ET shared how Jon and Kate are still dealing with their issues as their children [VIDEO] grow up. This sadly means the entire family can't celebrate together, which would be ideal. They don't seem to be able to fix their issues.

Update on Jon and Kate now

A source is speaking out about how Jon and Kate Gosselin are doing now.

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The source said they are "still at odds. They will never agree about how to raise the children. The source went on to say that they "absolutely despise one another and can't stand to even be in the same room." This does make it hard to raise so many children together.

In the past, it was reported that the kids would get dropped off at Jon's house by the bus and not Kate. He also wouldn't even know which children would be coming until they showed up.

They aren't celebrating the birthday together, but it turns out that they are both doing parties and almost accidentally ran into each other at the party store. Jon ended up leaving before he accidentally ran into Kate. Jon did share a picture of himself with Hannah so he is still seeing his children for sure.

Fans notice that Kate's son Collin is still not home

Collin Gosselin has been living away from the home for a while and has actually been at a home to get help with his anger issues. Kate hasn't even mentioned him in a long time and it turns out that now that they are turning 14 he still isn't around.

Kate recently posted a picture of the kids and there is one empty seat showing that Collin isn't there. A lot of the fans are really upset by this picture even if Kate didn't mean to do it that way. They would prefer to see Collin at least get to come home and celebrate his birthday with his family. For some reason, they don't seem to bring him home at all. She did put the caption, "Rainy day ice cream.... #HowAreMyBabiesTurning14? #LoveThemAll (even the ones who refused to be in the pic." This confused fans because maybe Collin was there and just not in the picture or she could have meant her older twins who were not pictured either.

Are you shocked to hear that Jon and Kate Gosselin [VIDEO] aren't getting along still? Don't miss Kate's new dating show when it starts airing on TLC this summer. It should be a great show and fans will get to finally see if Kate has found love. She hasn't really ever admitted to dating since she split from Jon, but it sounds like she is ready now.