luann de lesseps shocked everyone when she suddenly announced that she was divorcing Thomas D'Agostino. She made the announcement a few weeks ago, just three weeks after filming the final episode of the season. Because she filed for divorce after wrapping up the reunion special, fans are just learning about the troubles in her marriage now. Of course, Thomas was known as a bachelor and had been caught cheating on her prior to their wedding, but he publicly apologized and it sounds like he was indeed very sorry for his actions.

However, her "The Real Housewives of New York" co-stars kept suspecting that there were other women in his life.

Even though Luann trusted everything he had to say, her co-stars kept hearing stories about him cheating with other women. She didn't believe the stories, but when she was filming the reunion, she admitted that she had stayed at a hotel the night before.

According to a new tweet, Luann de Lesseps is now learning what her marriage was really like. She hasn't revealed why she filed for divorce but many suspect that it was due to cheating. Thomas simply couldn't stop seeing other women.

Blinders off

This week, Luann shared a simple tweet that read that her blinders were off. Her co-stars have said that she was wearing rose-colored glasses when she was dating him. She couldn't see how he was using her for a physical relationship.

All of her co-stars were upset with the things he was saying to her, including asking her for a hall pass before their wedding, and even joking about having a chain on when he was wearing his engagement ring.

This week, Thomas D'Agostino was spotted with the other woman, a woman named Missy.

This is the same woman, who had filmed "The Real Housewives of New York" with the group. Luann de Lesseps kept accusing the other ladies of being jealous of her marriage, as they kept attacking Thomas. She felt he was perfect, even though his humor was a bit aggressive.

Dating Missy?

One can imagine that Luann wasn't happy to see Tom with Missy in New York City this week.

The picture surfaced on Twitter and they are clearly having some dinner together. Since Thomas removed his microphone to talk about his feelings for Missy while filming "The Real Housewives of New York," one can imagine that Luann was shocked and saddened.

So, is Thomas dating Missy? It is possible that he never broke up with her despite being married to de Lesseps. As she has revealed several times, D'Agostino struggled to let go of his bachelor lifestyle.

What do you think of Luann de Lesseps' comments about having her blinders off? Do you think the picture with Thomas and Missy tells her everything she needs to know?