Lydia Mclaughlin has previously filmed "The Real Housewives of orange county" but had to leave the show because she felt it was too dramatic for her. The ladies were fighting and accusing one another of lying and cheating. Lydia was shocked that the ladies could be so rude and she decided to step away. McLaughlin is now revealing that she's ready to come back because she's now strong enough to deal with these issues. Lydia revealed that Shannon Beador was a lost soul during the second episode of this season of "The Real Housewives of Orange County" and viewers were not disappointed.

When the current drama between kelly dodd and Meghan King Edmonds played out on the show, McLaughlin couldn't help but pick a side. She had watched everything go down and she believed that Kelly lashed out for all the right reasons. When Lydia told Meghan this, she freaked out. According to a new report, Lydia McLaughlin is now revealing why she's taking Kelly's side in the drama, even though it isn't right to hint that someone is a bad mother for going out with her friends.

Meghan started it

In her Bravo blog, Lydia McLaughlin revealed that Meghan brought up the boyfriend rumor to Kelly first. If Meghan had never texted Dodd about the boyfriend rumor, it would have never gotten to that point.

Since Kelly is married, Meghan was hinting that Kelly was cheating on her husband.

"I want to start off by saying I really like Meghan. I enjoy her friendship and she is always sweet to me. When we went on the hike, I felt like she was going on and on about Kelly, yet she wasn't taking any responsibility for her part. Meghan was the one that accused Kelly of an affair FIRST," Lydia explains in her Bravo blog, revealing that Meghan doesn't seem to understand that she brought up the rumor of an affair first.

Apparently, King Edmonds felt that she was justified in what she had brought up to Kelly. She had merely inquired about a rumor and was told in return that her husband had been cheating on her for 10 years. But for Lydia McLaughlin, she felt that Meghan had brought up a cheating rumor and when it was brought up in relation to herself, she didn't like it.

Bringing Aspen into it

It may have been unfair to bring Aspen into it. During the argument, Kelly said that Meghan should have stayed home with her daughter instead of going out. It seemed like a sensitive issue for Meghan and Kelly knew where to hit her.

What do you think of Lydia McLaughlin taking Kelly's side in the argument with Meghan? Do you think she has a point in Meghan bringing up the rumors of an affair first?