Ramona Singer is still adjusting to life as a legally single woman. When she learned that her husband of almost 20 years had left her for a much younger woman, she was shocked and saddened.

She learned about the affair and even worse, she learned that Mario Singer was sneaking his mistress out to their Hamptons home, where they would hook up in private. Since getting divorced, Ramona has been back and forth in terms of what she wants for herself.

For a long time, Ramona Singer kept saying that she wanted to get back together with her husband. Clearly, that didn't sit well with her "Real Housewives of New York" co-stars, who just wanted the best for her.

They wanted her to move on from Mario and find someone else.

On Wednesday's episode of the show, Ramona revealed that she does miss her ex-husband and she does wish that they were back together. This is a shocking claim, especially as Singer had previously revealed that she didn't want to get back with him.

However, Ramona recently revealed that she does have a new boyfriend in her life. As it turns out, she has been dating while "The Real Housewives of New York" has been airing and she has found someone who she sees herself being with for a long time.

Who is her new boyfriend?

While Singer doesn't want to dish the details about her new boyfriend, she does have sweet things to say about him. As it turns out, he is a sweet guy who has a calming influence on her.

“He’s a really sweet guy. He makes me softer. He makes me calmer. He treats me so well!” Ramona Singer recently told PEOPLE magazine about her new relationship, according to Bravo, hinting that her new boyfriend has indeed changed her for the better.

It sounds like Mario isn't exactly in her life or thoughts anymore.

What about Mario Singer?

Mario has stayed out of the spotlight since getting caught with a younger woman. He tried to work things out with Ramona, but she changed her mind after a while. He then went back to his mistress, but it sounds like he may be happy these days. He still has a relationship with his daughter, Avery, even though she blamed him for ruining the family.

“My ex was a great husband and father for many years, but life continues. I’m happy now," Ramona explains, according to Bravo. It sounds like she still thinks he's a great father.

What do you think about Ramona Singer having a new boyfriend? Were you surprised when she said she missed her ex-husband on this week's episode of "The Real Housewives of New York?"