Ambiance

One of the most important things to have set up no matter how you choose to approach Valentine's Day is ambiance! Setting the mood doesn't have to involve a fancy restaurant or an expensive hotel. Something as simple as dimming the lights, playing some sensual music, and lighting some candles can have a much more substantial effect. Not only does doing this show your romantic/sensual side, but it also gives you complete control over everything and anything that happens that night.

Being able to maintain this type of control not only conveys a sense of maturity, but also a sense of commitment that can easily be found to be attractive.

Cooking

The number of recipes available online is truly astounding. But how do you decide which is best for your significant other? Think of all the times you've gone out or spoken about food! What has been the constant dish that they've favored above all others? Once you've discovered this, it's just a simple matter of finding the recipe online! Upon doing so, always be sure that your spouse is not allergic to any of the ingredients you will be using!

If you're able to successfully cook an edible meal without any issues, there's no doubt your spouse will be impressed. It has actually been statistically proven by statistical analyst Christof Baron that 70% percent of individuals prefer food made at home over restaurant meals. So put down that takeout menu and make something from the heart. Your spouse and your bank account will surely thank you for it!

Quality time together

After you've set the mood and filled your stomachs with home cooked delights, it's time for the most important step in your perfect Valentine's Day, quality time together! Whether this occurs through an adventurous night in the bedroom or simply snuggling up on the couch, it's important you make your loved one feel appreciated. Once you get past the commercialism of Valentine's Day, making them feel loved and cherished is the most important goal of this romantic holiday.