Tamra Judge was furious when she learned that vicki gunvalson had invited Tamra's former friend and best man to her birthday party. Tamra was no longer speaking to Ricky, the man who had played a big role in her wedding. Tamra revealed that he had been quite offended that she didn't invite him to her baptism, which was filmed for "The Real Housewives of Orange County." Rather than ask her why she didn't invite him, Tamra explained that he lashed out at her, revealing that he wanted to destroy her. When he showed up at Vicki's birthday party on last Monday's episode of "The Real Housewives of Orange County," Tamra saw this as his effort to make her look bad.

According to a new report, Tamra Judge opened up about what she thought when she saw the scene play out. As she points out, it isn't so much about her marriage to Eddie. It isn't even about her. It is about mocking a married man, who may have a preference in men. It is about laughing at someone for possibly liking men despite being married to a woman. While Tamra doesn't see her marriage this way, she does see this play out in the birthday scene.

Barbaric behavior

When she went on "Watch What Happens Live" recently, Tamra Judge revealed she wasn't bothered about her former friends joking about her marriage. She doesn't take them seriously anyway. But she is offended that they would mock the idea of someone being gay. As she explains, there's nothing wrong with being gay.

Now, she's getting the support of a fellow reality star, who thinks the behavior seen on the show is barbaric.

“I think it's horrible that this world goes to such levels. I find it shameful that as voyeurs, we as a society will watch on the edge of our seats the takedown of another human being and applaud it. It’s barbaric," Todd Chrisley has revealed about the drama playing out on "The Real Housewives of Orange County, adding, "Someone's sexual orientation or race or religion isn't a weapon to be used against them."

Gretchen and Vicki retracting stories

During the birthday party, Vicki Gunvalson and Gretchen Rossi were almost excited that there was gossip about Tamra and Eddie.

However, they are now revealing that they weren't gossiping about it because it was hurtful for Tamra. They were angry because Tamra had accused Vicki of spreading the rumor when they claimed they heard it for the first time at the party.

What do you think of Tamra Judge getting support from a fellow reality star? Are you surprised that she's discussing this issue on national television?

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