bethenny frankel was the one who brought Thomas D'Agostino's cheating to the surface on the previous season of "The Real Housewives of New York." Bethenny was shocked to learn that the man Luann D'Agostino had been gushing about for a few months was making out with another woman in New York at the hotel he frequents. He hadn't made an effort to hide his actions, even though he was celebrating his engagement party to Luann just 48 hours later.

When Bethenny learned of the shows, she brought it up to her "The Real Housewives of New York" co-star.

Luann was clearly devastated and instead of focusing on the betrayal, she focused on how the cheating made her look. It sounds like she didn't even really care that he had cheated - only that he had gotten caught. Frankel was shocked and she wasn't sure if she had made the right decision.

According to a new Bravo report, Bethenny Frankel now reveals she feels bad Luann has to go through all of this drama again and again. She is constantly faced with cheating rumors and it was just a few weeks ago that D'Agostino was in the press again with a supposed love slap in public.

Dropped out of gossip after wedding

While the other housewives may gossip about Luann, Bethenny Frankel has revealed that once Luann chose to get married to Tom, she decided to stop getting involved.

"I really feel badly for her, because she's been living this totally out loud. I think it's personal. They got married, and I decided to stay out of it after that," Frankel revealed, according to Bravo.

On "The Real Housewives of New York," Bethenny told D'Agostino that if she saw her husband cheating on Luann again she wouldn't tell her.

While Luann may want to know about the cheating, it sounds like Bethenny won't be the one to break the news to her.

Is Tom cheating?

Is Tom cheating? That's the question that people have been asking for over a year now. Ramona Singer and Sonja Morgan seem to think that there's more to the story. They believe that he may be keeping a secret from the ladies and that he may be sneaking away to see other ladies when his wife isn't around.

During next week's season finale, Tom reveals that he wants to remove his microphone when asked about his former fling. Perhaps he does have some juicy stories to share with his friends. It will be interesting to see how Luann defends this during the reunion special.

What do you think of Bethenny Frankel's comment that she feels bad for Luann having to go through this publicly?